There is this brief passage that caught my attention this past weekend while sitting on a porch and reading the scriptures.
‘His father had never interfered with him by asking, “Why do you behave as you do?”‘ I Kings 1:6
What condemning words to have spoken about a father’s way of raising his son. Can you imagine the kind of man that young boy would grow up to become? You don’t have to imagine – the scriptures are clear in reporting the actions of Adonijah. He grew into a young man with a sense of entitlement and arrogance – acting in ways to serve only himself.
As a dad, my prayer is that I never get so tired, frustrated, angry, distracted or apathetic that my kids would be able to say of me, “He never interfered!”
Whose life are you interfering in today? Isn’t it funny that what often seems like “interfering” can also be the very interaction that prevents damaging behavior in the future?
Perhaps a better question is, “Have I allowed God to interfere in my life today?”
2 Comments
April 20, 2009 at 6:57 pm
Wow. Great thoughts! Keep them coming!
April 27, 2009 at 8:29 pm
Wow, thanks for the those thoughts. Although I’m a mom, not a dad, it’s definitely convicting. I agree that I always wants to be a parent who interferes in a way that encourages my kids – biological and spiritual – to become more like Christ.